
When I was a kid my mother, being a kindergarten teacher with a myriad of inspired ideas on ways to make kids think and be more mindful of their blessings, would ask that each of her children name at least one thing we were thankful for on Thanksgiving. I, being the oldest and the only girl, aimed to please and would wrack my brain for the best possible answer. As we went around the table taking turns answering the traditional Thanksgiving Day question in an attempt to please Mom, we played off one another’s answers in hopes of outdoing one another. And then it was Mark’s turn.
Mark, even at a young age, believed in calling a spade a spade and was not at all interested in pleasing our mother or anyone else. When it was his turn Mom encouraged him to top the rest of us in his pronouncement of gratefulness. He couldn’t have been more than five or six years old at the time and after a long, long pause and a glowering look at my mother who had challenged him to dig deep, announced, “I’m not glad about nothin’!”
It was typical Mark but so unexpected and even outrageous considering it was the one day of the year when giving thanks was mandatory, wasn’t it? He caught us all so unprepared for his irreverent answer we all burst out laughing. Mark, fully expecting to be scolded for not playing the game, was at first a bit confused by our merriment but before long joined in the laughter quite pleased to realize he’d not only gotten away with speaking his mind, thanks to him we were having a little fun.
What are you grateful for at this time of year?
For me the list is long. This gorgeous flower, in one of the colors I always think of as belonging to a goddess, blooming at the foot of my stairs, was a real treat for me.
I am thankful for good health, family, friends, living a life rich with love and for being alive at this amazing time. And I’m thrilled to have this blog to share a story or two.